I got off the resolutions band-wagon years ago. I kept finding it to be a set-up for failure from start to finish. I'd look for a thing that was broken or not working or unlikeable about me or my life and "resolve" to change it. And then on January 1 I would bring the same me to a new resolution and guess what happened? Nothing, except maybe feeling worse about myself. So, instead ... In layers, I quit finding fault with myself and my life, what was broken or not working or u